A CONVERSATION,

A GAME,

A PAIR OF SHOES...

Aa: Nicole, it's time!

Nicole: Time for what? A circle jerk?!

Aa: No, silly. It's time for that pop-pysch quiz game, Kokology!

Imagine that you are a comfortable pair of shoes. If you could pick any person to wear you, who would that person be?

According to Tadahiko Nagao and Isamu Saito in their book, Kokology 2:

"When you imagine yourself as another person's shoes, you mentally place yourself in the position where they literally step and walk on you. This image is associated with feelings of self-negation, surrender, and subjection to the will of another. The person you named as your wearer is someone you can easily imagine yourself utterly enslaved by or would be happy to devote yourself to body and soul."

Did your response surprise you? Don't be alarmed; there's no shame in wanting to be totally dominated. Well, maybe just a little shame, but that's part of the thrill, isn't it?

So who did you pick? Your secret crush? Your boss? Your alcoholic stepfather?

Nicole: As you might have guessed, I picked hubby. And true enough, he's the dominant one in our relationship.

Aa: Oh. So does that also mean hubby is top and you're bottom?

Nicole: No comment.